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Originally Posted by oceanica
Let me clarify... I didn't mean that last statement to sound rude!
I just meant that I am trying to do things right here, so if you were coerced into placing or you have a completely closed adoption it may not apply.
But please, everyone let me know what you think! I didn't want to exclude anybody because you all could have valuable input for me.

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I didn't take it as rude. Open adoption has to be hard yet meaningful for everyone. Usually the amom who is more mature will shoulder the mom duties all the way around. I hope you understood that.
Not only for your children's sake but so the bmoms stay involved over time.
Hugs