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Personally, it's all I know really. I've always been the "birth mom". My daughter called me mom and mema and things like that when we met but she always introduced me as "this is my birth mom". Whenever we used to be online in a chat room together she'd tell everyone I was her birthmom.
I guess it has to do with the fact I was from day one after her birth called a birth mom and that's been 33 years now.
However, I do have to say just putting "B-mom" has bothered me but not enough to have a "problem" with it but enough to not like it.
Part of that is the adoptive parents are the "A-mom and dad" and "A" in everything such as grades in school, references to good situations or well being is always the top, the number one, the best you can get.
I realize that's stupid but it does bother me for the abreviations but not enough to really get angry just enough to be a "bug". You know?
I do know it's only for abreviation and that's ok and it doesn't really mean I'm any less of a person than the adoptive parents are. It's just a stupid thing that bothers me.
Rylee
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