I'm new here and my head is swimming. After a battle with infertility, we've decided to adopt. We haven't discussed boy/girl yet and are just starting out. We're strongly considering international adoption, but how do you research and decide on a country. We were thinking about Korea, but I just read about the weight requirement and it turns out that my husband is .5 over the BMI requirement. (He's very healthy, but tall and broad-chested; slightly overweight, but I'm not convinced that his BMI is a true reflection of his very good health.) This has me in a tailspin -- how can I tell him he has to go on a diet before we can start? And how would I go about picking another country to adopt from.
I'm sorry -- I probably sound a little crazy; actually I feel a little crazy.
