Kellyd... Did you go thru an agency to place in the open adoption? If so you could try to get them to mediate a meeting or deliver a letter directly to her or the a-parents. It may go over a bit better and seem less intrusive.
I wish I had a birthmother that was this passionate about finding me lol. I recieved word in Jan that she was looking for me, and the agency has not been able to get back in contact with her since. They are looking as well... I kinda work for them now. I love my a-parents with all my heart, but I have always had a desire to meet my b-mom and thank her for the selfless gift that she gave my parents and share my life story with her. Best of luck to you and keep us posted
