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When I was expecting my son, I would have never gone to a party with all that family there. WAY too much pressure. My son is five now and I have never met any of his extended family, and honestly, that is fine. I think it is very sweet of you to think of inviting her, but I am sure you would hate to see some place because of societal, or even percieved societal pressures. I too know women that have placed for reasons like that.
As for meeting your daughter, if she has asked to do that, I would say yes. I'm guessing that she wants to see your parenting style. Remember this is a HUGE choice for her and her baby, and one that she wants to make with as much information as she can.
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First mom to the amazing Kiddo and adopted adult.
1-4-2009 Mom and I visit Kiddo despite the bad weather. He really loved the blue mittens I made him and even helped me plan my living room. Apparently Hot Wheels wallpapper is the way to go.
2-16-2009 I got a promotion, that comes with a raise. Mom and Dad are visiting and we're going to Al's for pie to celebrate.
4-27-2009 Dad surprises me with a Lady Ugly Stick (an awesome fishing rod that is pink) and a 2nd Iowa Light Artillery Battery jacket. I'm a lucky girl!
5-30-2009 Kiddo turns five. It is hard to believe he is that old already, it seems like just yesterday he was being born. I was at peace for the first time on his birthday, what a nice feeling.
6-13&14 2009 A cannon live fire in Casper WY. We got third place and I got to see Devil's Tower for the first time, it was pretty awesome.
7-4-2009 Amelia the kitten comes to live with me and Liz. Talk about jealousy, Liz will adjust though.
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