Susan and the others shared baby wearing, huge HUGE on this! I leave my carseat in the car! We also do fostercare, and this is how the babies we get bond with us, the point is to make the baby feel safe, meet all his needs. It is not about us as parents
Get the last few nights of sleep you can, because it will be the last you will have for at least six weeks since you are single! Also make sure you have support, and use support system in place, when you don't have someone else to count on and you have to count on yourself, you need that alone time. As soon as you can get the baby on a schedule so that you can have some alone time even if it is 15 mins a day to relax and take a shower, you will need it! You cannot be a good parent if you don't take care of yourself also! I wish you luck
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