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I'm close to being discouraged as well. It has been 2 years and still nothing. Sometimes just thinking of having to update our home study and FBI stuff again makes me want to cry.
We also have planned a vacation. We are going to Oklahoma in August. We have put so much of our life on hold waiting for this baby and not wanting to spend money, that we finally decided it was time to just go. Realistically it doesn't look like anything is going to happen for us either. So we're going on with our life. I'm not sure yet if we will update again next month or just accept that this is how it is meant to be. I guess we'll wait and see.
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1st DD Hannah Nicole
received her wings, July 03 
2nd DD May 94  
12yr ttc
Began adoption July 07
Possible match family placement Oct. 07
Fell through Nov. 07 
Jan. 08 Got call ....not chosen by emom
03-07-08 Matched - emom due March 11th
Call 03-08-08, lead 4 families to think they were going to parent her baby 
Call 03-10-08, she wasn't even pregnant 
Waiting again.
03-17-08 Had to turn down baby girl, couldn't get flight before discharge
Our hearts are breaking and waiting again.
04-29-08 Got call....not chosen by emom due in June
06-17-08 Got call....not chosen by emom due July 6th
Profiled 07-18-08 for emom due in Nov. - emom decided to parent 08-25-08
Profiled 07-25-08 for emom due in Oct. - never heard back from emom
Profiled 08-12-08 for emom due in Sept. - never heard back from emom
Trying not to get discouraged, but getting more difficult every day.
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