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Originally Posted by Stampfl
My fd will be adopted next week they are getting my last name they also got to be acclamated to your family so i do think that they need your last name , I also felt bad after taking my classes but decided there is other ways to honor there birth parents and they are part of my family now and i want them to fit in here
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I agree...I love the classes we take, but sometimes they make me feel bad. Our trainer was saying it is good to take a camera to the visits to get pictures of the bio parents and children together. I never even thought to do that. We haven't had a visit in 6 months and may never again. I can only claim ignorance on that. Sometimes I forget that our fs IS a foster son. And I never realized he will grieve the loss of his bio family. He's been with us since birth...he won't know any different but he will still have a loss. I wish I had known these things before we got him.