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I agree with you Susanlee about the adult component not dealing with issues prior to searching. I feel that this is exactly what happened in my situation as well. The spent a long time looking for me and never really seemed to deal with the past first. After the reunion, things were uncomfortable at first (I wasn't looking and never really wanted to be found all that much), but after the initial shock, we talked on the phone a few times. Then, suddenly, no more phone calls, no answers to my emails. . . humph. You know, it doesn't bug me so much that they are done talking with me. . . like, I don't feel rejected or anything like that. But I DO feel annoyed that someone can sneak up to the back window of you life, break in without permission, disrupt your daily life without even a by-your-leave, take what they want, and then run out again. . . I mean, at least if you're going to horn your way in to somebodies life without even knowing if it's a good time or not, then try to make sure that you are ready personally for a reunion and everything it brings. It's kind of rude and selfish.
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