I am in the middle of reading "The Girls Who Went Away" not only is it very insightfull on adoptions then, it also brought a whole new light to my non-id info! The section of "Why adoption was planned for you" the words there now have a totally differnt meaning to me. It painted a differnt picture of why that I would have never seen without reading this book. And a better understanding... A really good book!!
I am hoping to have contact with my birthmother soon and feel this will help me in the meeting as well!
Good Luck to you & your meeting! Let us know how it all goes!
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