[MilehighDad]

Beach4,
Thank you so much, I really like the school idea. We do know the school where she was from K to 3rd, and I even have the name of the counselor there. We have also had contact with her last school, but they were actually the source of the few pictures we got through her foster mom. Her foster mom actually took no pictures, whatsoever. Contacting the previous school for pictures just hadn't occurred to me.

Stevenstwin,
Yes, we thought the same thing about horse lessons. Our oldest took riding lessons for quite a while, and it really helped her. Unfortunately, one of the things she is doing right now seems to be pushing away from things she liked before, like she's trying to get distance to the past. She has riding lessons that are paid for, but she is refusing to go. She's doing so well with so many things, we just don't want to push her if it is just bringing up bad memories.