[MilehighDad]

Stevenstwin,
Thanks for your input, your thinking is pretty much where I am at, I'm just so uncertain about it. I definitely am hoping for neutral-background pictures, and i could even explain that part to them.

I don't know why they disrupted, other than that she is a very hurt and troubled child. My only guess is that she was just harder than they were expecting. They had horses, and it was summer so she got to ride a lot. Preteen girl, horses, 2nd disruption, yeah she took it pretty hard. It didn't help that afterward her SW told her that as long as she couldn't behave she was never going to be able to have a family. Her SW really liked to document things like that.

That's probably more background than is needed, but my daughter's experience is part of deciding what to do.