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You are not a bad person because you don't feel that you can handle this situation. We all have a lot of soul searching and hard decisions to make when we adopt. We have to decide what race we are comfortable adopting, what level of drug and alcohol exposure we are comfortable with, what special needs we can handle and the list goes on ad nauseum. We all make the best decisions for our families. I was open to race. That doesn't make me "better" than someone who was not open to race. The person not open to race is not a bad person imo. I was not open to special needs. That does not make me worse than someone who was open to special needs and it does not make me a bad person. Do you see what I mean? Don't beat yourself up over this. Good Luck with whatever decision you make and congratulations on your pregnancy!
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