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Old 07-04-2009, 12:40 AM
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Darci, it's a little hard to respond without more info. I see by your tagline that the daughter you relinquished is about 11 years old, right? Was this a closed adoption to begin with, or was it an open adoption that was closed later? If it was an OA, do you have any idea why your daughter's parents closed it down? I'm just asking in order to get a better view of things. It's worrisome to me that they're not responding to your letter.

If the birth father has medical history to pass along, I think it's important to tell them. I would imagine that they'd appreciate the updated medical history...but, heck, I could be wrong. It's hard to say without knowing anymore than we do about your particular situation.
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