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wow sometimes the similarity in stories amazes me. I too did not want to marry the bdad. I could not give him the love he lavished on me...I found it so hard to part with him in such a vulnerable position, but knew I just had to. I was having nightmares about being pushed up the aisle etc!!!!!
Fast forward 29yrs...I ended up having to sit with him at an international Sports event in which our bdaughter was playing.
I found it very hard...his feelings for me still rather overt!!!
you know dklevy...i think reunion is hard enoughwith out having to worry to much about bdads relationship. Look after you and your relationship first. Things seem to get so complicated, emotions fly, and who wants that.
Take care
Susie
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