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Originally Posted by Lolo88
-I am strangely nervous about people assuming that infertility is our primary motivation when it isn't...but I'm learning that people have lots of misconceptions about adoption and that infertility really isn't the "primary" motivation for anyone...thoughts on how to respond to the silly things others say?
-Not sure when/how to tell the family...wondering if they will try to pressure us to "try harder" for bio kids...what are others experiences and suggestions on this?
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when we adopted our first three....we
chose adoption first. it was shortly after we were married, and had no idea whether we could have bio kids or not. we got dumb questions all the time. i decided to go the "fun" route and said things like, "i know how babies come out, and i'm not interested." lol....it did what i intended it to do...got people to shut up about asking about bio-kids.
