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That is a TOUGH one. I think I would ask them - I'd be as polite and sensitive as possible, but if I have to make a choice here about whose feelings to put first it is the child's. I don't know why they disrupted, but having made that decision they might find it comforting to know she is doing well, and be able to do something to help. As for the pictures themselves, if they have any - I would NOT give her anything that shows them or anything that really identifies their home just yet. I'd get them and hold onto them, but they'd probably make her feel bad right now - but maybe you'll get really lucky and there will be some photos of just her in a fairly neutral situation.
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