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I'm really sorry you were so close to disaster. We had a similar experience with the dad of one of our son's friends. Except, it wasn't us that had the wierd feeling, it was him. The first time he went to his friend's house, he didn't like that this dad told him, "it's ok for you to watch an R-rated movie, we just won't tell your parents." We never sent him back to that guy's house, and 18 months later he was arrested for molesting his son's friends. So, not only do you have to trust your feelings, you have to trust your kids take on it, too. And, teach them to tell you when someone says it's ok to break your rules.
It was really scary, but like you, I'm glad we weren't the ones involved in the case and wondering if our child had been hurt and how. And, thanks for sending out the warning for everyone.
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 Adopted daughter, 9, placed from foster care at birth
 Bio son, 11
 Adopted daughter, 12, placed last November and finalized June 16th!! Woot woot!
 Bio son, 14
 Adopted daughter, 19, placed from foster care at 14
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