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Thanks Raven. I have been thinking of getting second opinions although they would be more like 3rd or 4th at this point.
DianeS. I guess I've always been concerned about others feelings and I know that when I contacted this man previously, he was okay with telling me about his life but when I approached the subject of my paternity - he became very upset. He seemed very conscientious and wanting to do the right thing but did not want to believe that he could be my bdad. If he truly isn't, and I approach the subject with him, even the possibility may be enough to upset him and his wife even though I was born many years before he married her. I know from having elderly parents, that even little things were upsetting to them. And I don't think this can be catagorized as a little thing.
Anyway that is just my "take" on it.
Snuffie
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