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I'm curious - if he is NOT your bdad, what about contacting him again would ruin his life? I can imagine a very weird and awkward 10 minutes, but ruin his life?
Now if he is your bdad, and knows it, and never told anyone - I can see how that would cause problems, like if he lied to his wife about having children before they were together. And if he is your bdad, and didn't know it but you can prove it, then that would result in some very awkward emotions.
But can you explain how this is bad if he isn't your bdad? I've heard several people say things like this, and I'd like to know what I'm missing.
(And I wish you luck in finding answers to your medical issues.)
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