As an adoptive parent, I really appreciate these posts. While I was in process with my son, I started to read a book that talked about primal wound kind of stuff and I started crying and could not stop. I hated the thought that my son would be hurting forever and would maybe hate me for adopting him. I was a mess for a bit until I read some stuff on here and talked to a friend who is adopted. I am sure everyone has a different experience (duh) and my son might struggle with the adoption bit, but to know that he can be a happy, productive member of society DESPITE
being adopted is really helpful.
I love my son more than I could have ever imagined and am so grateful to have him in my life. He makes me laugh and smile every day and I hope that helps him realize how loved and wanted he is.
Thanks to the adoptees who post here. It seems sometimes that we only hear from unhappy adoptees so it's good to hear the other side.