I do not mean any disrespect to those adoptees out there who feel the primal wound but is there anyone else out there who actually likes being adopted? I actually bragged about it growing up. If someone said I was a "mistake" I said " No my parents pick me, yours just had sex. R u sure ur not a mistake?" And my a fam is nuts
so I was glad I wasnt genetically related to them sometimes esp when disease came up. Besides when I fought with my parents as a teen I could always daydream about "my real parents and how they would understand me!" Very comforting.
I always felt special being adopted and quite frankly being "found" has taken some of the mystery/fun out of things.