Are visit days ever truly pleasent. For me the anxiety starts the night before the visit. My oldest son has RAD and an PTSD and only functions well with planning. So I have to debate on telling him about the visit and having a bad night and a bad day at school (or daycare) or not telling him and having him freak when the worker comes. It is a mess! We are also at an uncomfortable place right now termination is almost over (we ran out of court time and had to be reschedualed for two months out
) so visits are down to once a month. THe kids therapist had told them visits would be over though so my sons are so confused! After court at the end of July there is only one more visit and it is the goodbye visit! I cannot wait to let these kids truly heal from that!