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Originally Posted by Amandak249
I seem to be one of the few people on these forums who is actually better off without her birthmother. I know that this will make me extremely unpopular, but it is simply the sad truth.
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When I read that I have to say to myself, my biological mother was the same way. I never met her I never wanted to. I was in foster care for 5 years after my biological father couldn't take care of me any more. I was adopted by a great family, who helped me through my difficult journey. Deal or No Deal kind of thing. They wanted me to go with the Deal but deep in my heart I wanted to go with No Deal.
I had my son a year ago and I had him adopted. I wanted to be nothing like my biological mother but more like my mother. My fiance was there through the whole pregnancy and I was an ever faithful mother. I wasn't deemed unfit or mental. I wasn't able to support the baby because of the money and I wanted to go to school.
I wasn't self involved.
I hope you know that not all birth mothers are from the gutters and look at them as human beings who had to make the world's most difficult decision ever.