On another note...KittyMay, many of us have had positive experiences with our reunions. I started a thread called "Big Love" about a year and a half ago and invited others to share their positive reunion stories.
I haven't posted an update for a long, long time, but we continue to make good progress, and the love continues to grow. I'll try to get an update written soon.
Basically, I think that if one takes the time and makes the committment to be patient, compassionate and forgiving, the reunion experience will be a worthwhile journey.
Check it out:
Big Love...
Best wishes,
Susan