[MamaS]

Originally Posted by crick

Well there I agree with you..it always comes down to the money. I personally wouldn't adopt this way or pay out normal living expenses as any expectant mother whether they are thinking of placing or not is responsible for themselves. (jmo)
Just my opinion...I know a lot of people will disagree. that's okay!

Doesn't this contradict what so many birth mothers have said on this forum? "I gave up my baby because I had no help or support (from family, society, etc.) If there had been help available, I would have kept my baby." So, the PAP provides the help and support and the mother keeps her baby. Except that the PAP doesn't realize that is what is happening until the end, when they discover they are not PAPs at all.