Well there I agree with you..it always comes down to the money. I personally wouldn't adopt this way or pay out normal living expenses as any expectant mother whether they are thinking of placing or not is responsible for themselves. (jmo)
As it is, there are those willing to take these risks and until we have stricter enforced laws regarding expenses, we will always have this issue. Scammers are low life who give true emoms and bmoms a bad name.
Personally I wish more paps would stop paying expenses. We are the more powerful "group" and if we stopped showing the money, then I think that would put a dent in the scammers ability to do this. As well as put a dent in the agencies who are not truly working on behalf of either party.
Just my opinion...I know a lot of people will disagree. that's okay!
