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I really feel that now that you and your wife are a couple, a family unit, then that is the way he should meet you both. you could invite them to your home for the reunion or right afterwards for dinner or something. the boys bfather should see you as a couple...so he can go on with his life. with no more day dreams.
if he has been in prison all this time....his life has been on hold living in the past and may think he can start things back up now and make things right with the woman he once knew in the life he already screwed up. but this is a reunion for b-father and son to meet.
The two men to bond.
he has to see the reality of how things are now so he can come to terms with the fact that life has moved on with her although he has not.
You should definitely both meet him as a couple.
if she goes alone....for a man just getting out of prison...it would be just a sad torturous tease to put him through. IMO
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