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Originally Posted by millie58
aspenhall: well put
Pereingrose: I understand what you're saying. However, kids NEVER call adults by their first name. That puts them on the same level and they're not. My boys didn't choose their life. However, this is the hand that they were dealt. That can't be changed. Love ands bonds have to be built, this is true. I started building them when I started taking care of them: feeding, clothing, spending time with them. I don't take anything from their birth mom. I encouraged visits. But they recognize that sometimes kids have more than "only one mom".
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Then find someother name.....YOU made the choice to clothe them and feed them.....that is only a small psrt of parenting these kids..the other big part is making them feel as if they are worth living in your house...not the other way around.
Didanyone listen to the actual person that posted here that has lived it...are you listening?