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aspenhall: well put
Pereingrose: I understand what you're saying. However, kids NEVER call adults by their first name. That puts them on the same level and they're not. My boys didn't choose their life. However, this is the hand that they were dealt. That can't be changed. Love ands bonds have to be built, this is true. I started building them when I started taking care of them: feeding, clothing, spending time with them. I don't take anything from their birth mom. I encouraged visits. But they recognize that sometimes kids have more than "only one mom".
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