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Originally Posted by JustPeachy
Ummm, yeah. And if he was ever raped and had someone forced on him and had to endure the shame, humiliation, violation, assault, etc., I'm so sure he'd just magically forget about it and act like it never happened. GMAB! That's called denial and delusion, not the makings of a mentally sound person.
I think this is the very worst advice anyone can give, and it is clear that this guy doesn't know what he is talking about. And what if she is not a virgin when it happens?? Oh, wait, here it is...
What is up with this guy's fixation on virginity? And what about all the concern for guys who are no longer virgins?? Why isn't he trying to protect THEIR virginity??? Anyone who makes a woman feel ashamed for her sexuality has some serious issues, IMO. And if they are making women feel ashamed but not men, they are hypocrites, to boot.
I haven't pretended to be a virgin since I was a teenager and worried that if I said I already did it, the guy I was with would think I was too easy!! LOL!!!! (I didn't fool him, anyway). I'm certainly not going to feel ashamed and try to revirginize (is that a word?) myself after all these years!!
In my opinion the guy sounds like a total idiot. Not to mention dangerous to those who have been violated. He sounds like a charismatic leader, but there are all sorts of charismatic leaders who are/were menaces to society.
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Peachy, sounds like we were thinking along thesame lines...I like the revirginize word.
The day woman take their power back is when men stop[ telling woman how it should be sexually.
The most charismatic peo9le WERE evil...HITLER