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Dear Shelbs,
Hey there!! :-)
This is a tough situation because while your bdad does have rights, so do you. You have the right to know where you came from, IMO.
If you have a way to find him, can you contact him discreetly?
I know he was young at the time but now that he's an adult, he may be wiser and better equipped to handle meeting you. Also, it could be that he's wondered about you over the years.
I know I always have wondered about my daughter and son.
Quantum is right. It is scary to think of contact and you do need to protect yourself emotionally in the case of a not so welcome outcome.
Still, you have every right to find answers to the question in your heart.
Much good luck your way today and always!!!
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Janey
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