Wow, you must be one crazy busy lady! I am not sure what you are asking for here, but if you are planning to wait for 5-10 years and then go with an international adoption, I don't know that there is much point to even looking into it right now. I say this because the countries that are opened or closed to international adoption seems to constantly be in flux. Who knows wha the picture will look like in a few years, or even a year from now.
As for marriage, I frankly don't know how partnerships are viewed in international adoption. A lot of countries seem to be quite conservative and at least a few agencies probably wouldn't accept you as clients because of it. I guess the long and short of it is that the adoption would probably go a lot easier if you were married for a few years!
I admire what you've accomplished at such a young age, by the way.
