[Shelbs]

I am just looking for some guidance. I am an adoptee. I was born in 1982. My bfather was 16 yrs old and my bmother was 20 yrs old.

Since my bfather was so young at the time of my birth, my fear is that he really wants to pretend that I never existed.

Any thoughts on if I should even try contact? Im sure that he has moved on with his life and probably has a family of his own. I do not want to mess up anything that he has built.

Im pretty sure that he is not looking for me so maybe I should just let things stay as they are.

Any thoughts?