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What you suggest is illegal, so no, you can't and because it violates the law, discussing such matters isn't allowed here on the forums.
It is MUCH easier to go about things legally - which he may not be listed on paperwork as the father of your child - he still maintains rights and if you do anything short of terminating those rights, his rights will remain in tact and there could be legal issues in the long run.
Take the required steps. In the end, having things above board is the only way to ensure that everyone's best interest are met.
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Brandy
Adopted Adult, Mom & Wife
Mothering From The Sidelines of Open Adoption
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