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Offer to visit her, even if its a stay in a hotel. I was 23 once and I do wish I could meet my own BMom, but that will never happen. As an adoptee, I know this young woman is torn. Help her out and say, I'm just here to be a joy in your life, not a burden. Remember, she has grown up in an era when adoptees were still looked down upon and in some place still are. I know she had gone through some realy tough spiritual battles, including, but not limited to, I not worthy. God worked really hard to keep this girl alive. So good luck and God speed.
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