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Personally, I think your wife should stay out of the reunion between her son and his birthfather. Especially given that the birthfather still seems to have feelings for her. It's just inappropriate in my book and if it were me, I'd feel like it was disrespectful toward my husband if I were to get so involved with my ex. I think your wife did her part by providing all the info for her son to contact his birthfather, and the two of them should forge their own relationship separately.
I honestly can't imagine being there if my son was meeting his birthdad for the first time. That relationship ended so many years ago and I really have no desire to rekindle it in any way, shape or form, nor do I wish to see him or relive any moments with him. That would have to be between my son and his birthdad if it ever came to a reunion situation.
I don't blame you at all for feeling as you do. I think your wife should consider your feelings in this.
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