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Originally Posted by Dickons
Listen to Ravens words very carefully. This child will grow up and secrets never remain secret.
This is your child - you should be supporting the mother of your child. If you will be raising this child how would you look him/her in the eye if you do not support the mother?
Please look into your heart, if you are not willing to support your child now, will you be willing later?
Regards,
Dickons
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I think there is a misunderstanding of my post.
1. Her pregnancy was not planned.
2. I never said I was not going to support the child.
3. No, I am not supporting the birthmom after the baby is born because she does NOT want to keep the child and my wife and I want this child and to raise her in our home.
4. Medicaid is already paying for her pregnancy care and birth expenses and I will take over when the baby is born. What if she had not told me she was pregnant or that the baby is mine? Medicaid will still pay, and unless I do DNA paternity testing, I will not pay for her pregnancy and birth expenses. Paternity tests are easier after baby is born.
Basically I will not shoulder expenses of a pregnancy that I am not 100% sure is mine. I know for a fact that she was seeing someone else too. So there is a chance baby is not mine. Now even if baby is not my biological child, I would still be interested in adopting, and in that case it will be AFTER the baby is born and brought home and will not responsible for medical expenses.