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Originally Posted by barbie12
I agree... I consider myself the "real" mom. My love and connection with my child will always be.....only the "real" mom understands the "bond".
Others say things like you gave up your rights...the adoptive parents raised the child ....
But the unseen connection, the bond, the energy is never given up......
That is why many write/research adoptions because of the many dimensions the unseen bond, connection that can not be broken..
Only "we" adoptive children and bio parents know...
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Actually, many adoptee get stressed, feel torn, and have their own opinion on who the "real" mom is.
It really is horrible to feel we have to "pick" due to circunstanses that belong to us...its our existence that is making someone real or unreal.