I just got off the phone with her current foster mom and I now better understand what to expect with her. She told me that FD really likes to challenge authority. You will tell her not to do something and explain WHY not to do it and she'll still do it. I guess even after a year she's still trying to figure out how to get through and deal with her. She told me that the one thing that kinda works with her is taking away privileges when she does cross the line and have her work to do good to earn things. So I guess it won't be that hard. The one thing I'm a little worried about is that she has so much anger and the FM said you don't even know what sets her off sometimes. And when she gets mad she has the tendency to wanna run.
So I need to think of ways for her to "run" off the anger without actually running down the street. So if anyone has any ideas I'd greatly appreciate it.....