hi everyone i'm new here so please bare with me!
my situation is my sister was put up for adoption by my mother because of drug abuse. my brother and i were both raised by my grandmother and had visits with my sister and her family pretty often. recently my mother has sobered up and met my sister (with her family's consent of course) and had a couple of visits. but now we haven't heard from my sister's family in a while. would it be rude if i called them up asking for an explanation? i'm mostly concerned because i want to be an active part of my sister's life. if her family did let me see her would it be dishonest to my family to not tell them we were seeing each other? would that be healthy for my sister? She is turning 11 soon and I am 19. any advice would be great
