[JustCourtney]

I am so sorry that your attorney did not do his job, and that you were surprised this way.

You stated that you were not objecting to contact with the grandparents, but to the fact that they continued to allow contact with the bmom when she is with them, correct? Your first priority has to be the well being and safety of your child - that goes without saying. However, there is also the mental health and emotional well being to considered as well. I am sure your daughter loves her grandparents, and having them suddenly gone from her life would certainly be a loss for her. Perhaps there is a way that you can compromise? Maybe you can have them come to your home to spend time with your child? How about you all go to lunch, or to the zoo, someplace where you have some control over who is there? I would think that if they truly want to have a relationship, they will find a way that you can all agree on.

I hope that you can find a way to keep everyone safe and happy.