[Xdad]

Well, since the intrusive phone call last month, I have recieved no communication from her mother. Everything that I have been told, heard, or said myself is pointing to the fact that her mother/dad are pure and simple liars. Pure, meaning that they think that their lies are protective, and simple so that I can see right through them. I am more than convinced that my suspicions of the pregnancy are absolutely correct, and that I made the best decision possible by staying away as long as I did. This doesn't change the feelings that I have for my daughter, but it does fill me full of rage that I am going to at some point have to unravel this story for my daughter, and how that is going to affect her in the future. All along I assumed that I was the screw-up in this, when it was actually the Mother of my Daughter. A sick sick world I tell ya.
Anyway, I am one click away from deleting her Mother from my friends list. For one, it is apparent that we will never be friends, or even confidants...let alone team players. I think the only reason I don't delete her, is the " I told ya so" that would immediately spew from her mouth... I have no real reason at this point to continue the "false" friendship on facebook, my daughter has every means to contact me, and I am pretty easy to find on the internet.

So, should I send a letter of intent, before I delete her?
Should I even delete her?
Should I call her and try to sort things out?
Should I get a private investigator? lol?
Should I just relax?
At what point should someone blow a whistle and call "shenanigans"?

argh!