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I don't know how he'll eventually process such a situation, but I can tell you how I state it.
I am "Technically" an only child. I was raised as such, but I also "Technically" have a half-sister & half Brother.
I love them Dearly even though 1 of them I have never met, & the other does not know the truth(they think I am/was merely a friend & schoolmate) about exactly who I am for their own "Good" but at the moment that changes the one will know, & I will be there for them(at least one of the issues involves special needs, that I am fully willing to take on) & if I ever have even a slight chance to meet the other (who I have no firm proof/knowledge if they know about me either) I will move heaven & hell to do so. I really do love them & miss them, I have spent many nights/days crying over not actually having them, or knowing them.
But, mine is not actually an adoption situation, & I still have/had to figure out how this all is, & should be. So your son will not be going through anything different in that aspect.
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