Attachment Disorder | Nancy Thomas Parenting | Attachment.org | Reactive Attachment Disorder has lots of great printable letters for family and teachers. Do be a bit careful of telling them too much. As you are already seeing, very well meaning people can sometimes become negative about the children and situations. I'm an open book - and they need to know any dangers since they spend time with them...but you also don't want to paint the grimmest picture ever!