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It's interesting to "speculate," isn't it? My DH has no info (yet) on his birth dad and claims to not be interested in finding him (I know this could change). Not even sure if his birth dad knows he exists, etc.
My own DD's birth dad is amazing. I love the guy. He is definitely not as "emotional" as DD's birth mom about DD and the adoption but I know how much he loves her (we saw him a couple of weeks ago). He is such a fun guy and I love that he and DD's birth mom are happily married, etc. I also learned that he was completely supportive of DD's birth mom's decision (whether to parent or place)...which I was glad about (I got the "impression" earlier that maybe he was the one who really was "pushing" the adoption). I think sometimes I "presume" that the adoption hasn't affected him as much which is bad of me to do (it's just you know...the guy thing!).
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