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I can understand the need to keep a check on the elderly because there are a lot of people who abuse their parents but I guess with the good reports I've had with the physical therapy people that come in and see how I am with my mother.
I guess I'm just so frustrated by the idea of surprise visits on top of everything else.
I hate ANYONE to come without notice. It's just the way I've always been. I was like that as a kid. I didn't like people coming to see me without telling me first. I don't know why. Now not only is someone going to come check up on us but it's without notice and I can't relax and it makes me angry that I have to deal with that.
With physical therapy coming in 4 times a week to work with my mom, if they seen something they didn't think was right they have the legal obligation to tell someone about it. But I always know when they're coming and that makes me more comfortable with the whole thing.
I've only been given 10 minutes occasionally before they do get here. They call the day they are coming and I don't mind that because I know before they get here that they are coming. Even if it's only a 10 minute warning. It gives me enough time to get dressed if I'm still in my PJ's and it gives me enough time to pick up a few things that may be on the floor.
I still don't like being under the microscope. I don't like the idea that I can't be myself and relax in my own home. It is just wrong!
Rylee
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