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It sounds like you have been very thorough in your search -- I'm sorry you haven't made a connection yet. If your parents were in their 20's when you were born, it's more likely that other family members did not know of the pregnancy. My bfather told no one in his family that my bmom was pregnant -- but some cousins found out after I was born -- they're the ones who recently found me online by my birthdate and city of birth.
Wow, your bdad was tall! Are you tall as well? I hope your aparents told you some facts about your bparents when you were growing up. My aparents told me nothing -- and I remember being really nervous about my height when I grew taller than my older abrother (from different bparents). And my abrother was not happy about being short! It turned out that as adults he is a few inches taller than me, but it sure was traumatic growing up not knowing anything about our bparents.
Sorry if I'm digressing. You sound like you're doing everything right in your search. Keep plugging -- you never know what will come up -- I was "found" at age 54. Have you tried to get a copy of your original birth certificate?
I feel your frustration, and I wish the best for you.
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