I really hope it works out for you - I agree with the others that the idea of letting the kids visit with many families is strange - seems that would be more confusing with them and set a challenging expectation of who is eventually in the place of authority.
I will be thinking of you and hoping that if this the match for you it goes smoothly 
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Shel
May 9, 09 - Received approved homestudy in the mail 
May 09 - Matched with 3 siblings - boys (5,6 &9)
August 09 - Brought them home for good
Hoping to finalize in November on adoption day
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