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Old 05-16-2009, 04:16 PM
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I'm not so worried about my family because my family is multiracial both by marriage and by bloodline. I think that if my wife and I have an AA, dark skinned Biracial or hispanic child no one will really pay much attention to us where we live. I think however if we end up with a CC or asian child then we will get more looks since we are AA. I think people may think my wife is the "sitter" since that is what you see the majority of the time when there is an AA woman with a cc or asian child around where I live. I would worry that people might think that I was "kidnapping" my own child if we ended up with a CC or Asian child but not worrried about it enough to not be open to it. We will just cross that bridge when we get there.
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10/20/08- Orientation about Foster care and Adoption
11/1/08- Started MAPP Classes
1/31/09- Received MAPP Certificate of completion
3/17/09- Received background check clearance
5/27/09-Home study officially approved
6/29/09- Home Officially opened and on "THE LIST"
8/13/09- Received license in the mail
11/13/09- rang regarding a 2 month old and 2 year old as possible matches
11/16/09- Paternal Family filed papers for custody of 2 year old :sad:
11/17/09- Informed 2 month old actually a and judge wants her placed in Pre-adoptive home ASAP
11/23/09- Told Foster Mom wants to try keep 2 month old. Waiting for Law guardian decision

Patiently waiting to hear more
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